Wednesday, October 22, 2008

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You Are an Ingrid!

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You are an Ingrid -- "I am unique"



Ingrids have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.



How to Get Along with Me

  • * Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me.

  • * Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself.

  • * Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision.

  • * Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little.

  • * Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!




What I Like About Being an Ingrid

  • * my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level

  • * my ability to establish warm connections with people

  • * admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life

  • * my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor

  • * being unique and being seen as unique by others

  • * having aesthetic sensibilities

  • * being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me




What's Hard About Being an Ingrid

  • * experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair

  • * feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved

  • * feeling guilty when I disappoint people

  • * feeling hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me

  • * expecting too much from myself and life

  • * fearing being abandoned

  • * obsessing over resentments

  • * longing for what I don't have




Ingrids as Children Often

  • * have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original games

  • * are very sensitive

  • * feel that they don't fit in

  • * believe they are missing something that other people have

  • * attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.

  • * become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood

  • * feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents' divorce)




Ingrids as Parents

  • * help their children become who they really are

  • * support their children's creativity and originality

  • * are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings

  • * are sometimes overly critical or overly protective

  • * are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed



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Thursday, October 16, 2008

Spooky Pirates



Rachel and Don are going to be pirates for Halloween and don't they look cute...er...I mean scary?

Fun stuff


Next was my birthday. I told Jesse this was my last one since I never wanted to be 35. We took Jesse's folks to Anchorage to catch their plane so they took us out to diner. It was excellent. This is what the kids gave me.

let's move to October



October is a busy birthday month for us. First in Don's. He loved his cake. Don is the first of our children toblow out the candles on their second birthday. When we could keep his brothers away he had a blast opening and playing with his gifts.

Do you have a minute?



Okay maybe I'll do this in a few posts. September was a time of great trial as far as adjusting to school and getting ready for my in-laws to visit. Their visit was very nice. We were able to help celebrate Bob's 78th birthday. Grandma took the older kids to Anchorage to go to Chuck E. Cheese and the waterpark. They all had a great time. September was also Rachel's 3rd birthday. She is fully potty trained now and she is my biggest helper. As you can see she is leading her brother to show his femenine side.